november's about to end... and that means december is o! i've been looking forward to december every year... christmas season, the arrival of the new year, and of course, my birthday! hehehe!
my mom will be coming back from her vacation in the philippines this thursday morning... it's been more than a month since i last saw her... i miss my mom's cooking! hehehe!
last sunday night, i was watching tv patrol on tfc, and i saw this woman jump off a billboard in edsa-kamuning... i think that's the 2nd time this year someone jumped off that high... the first one was when a man and his 1-year-old son jumped off an overpass in commonwealth ave... the man survived, but sadly, his son didn't... while i was watching those 2 video clips, i was shocked... eh ako pa naman, may phobia sa matataas na lugar... lagi akong nalulula pag asa mataas na lugar ako...
can't wait for my summer vacation in the philippines this march... haven't seen my college and high school friends for the longest time... i'm looking forward to it...
anyways, take care everyone! have a happy christmas season!
To "let go" does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can't do it for someone else.
To "let go" is not to cut myself off,
it's the realization I can't control another.
To "let go" is not to enable,
but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To "let go" is to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another,
it's to make the most of myself.
To "let go" is not to care for,
but to care about.
To "let go" is not to fix,
but to be supportive.
To "let go" is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
To "let go" is not to be protective,
it's to permit another to face reality.
To "let go" is not to deny,
but to accept.
To "let go" it not to nag, scold or argue,
but instead to search out my own shortcomings, and correct them.
To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires
but to take each day as it comes,
and cherish myself in it.
To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To "let go" is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.
To "let go" is to fear less,
and love more.
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Reflection of the moment:
"you don't let go, you hold on, and get hurt in the process, not knowing where this holding on will lead... then you'll just realize nothing will happen, and that's when you just let go of the person..."
